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How will I know him?

They see a beautiful woman and ask “how are you single?”

You seem to have what every man would want.

Attractive, a career, independent, and more.

They ask the question in confusion. With a puzzled look.

I simply laugh as I reply to the question, “Why are you single?”

I’m single because my season to meet the needs and wants of another person hasn’t arrived yet

Understand I am His before I will ever be anyone else’s

I’ve wasted precious energy lying next to carbon copies of what God has in preparation for me

I’ve settled but now I know my worth so it would be insane to accept anything less than what I deserve

So I spend my days working on my Father’s business

I spend my nights in bed alone educating myself on what I need to know to navigate through this life with intellect and instinct

And when he shows up Because I won’t be looking for him

He just won’t please my eyes but he’ll satisfy my soul

His presence alone will be enough even without his touch

His words will unlock emotions that only God equipped him to

His ability to lead will cause me to follow him with blind faith

His affection will be what I need without even asking

His bravery will cause me to fight harder for my own dreams

His love for his mother and sisters will be the same love he has for me

His respect will be undeniable

I will be his and he will be mine. Me + him + the Father will equal One.

Written by: Britney Clark

Relationships are a privilege 

The norm seems to still be active for graduating college, getting a job, marrying, and having children. I have talked to a many women who married under the age of 25 and sadly many regret it. Why? They did it too young. They didn’t know who they were or what they needed. When you don’t know who you are you don’t have a clear understanding on what you’re entitled to. So many women settle for careers they don’t love, have kids that occupy even more time from finding out who they are, and care and love the man they have chosen prematurely.
It is so disheartening to see women in their late 40s and 50s not knowing who they are. They haven’t had the chance to live alone or find their purpose because their lives are so compartmentalized in meeting the needs of others. They seek unhealthy approval from their husbands or children.
A relationship consists of 2 whole people operating at their full capacity. They each know who they are and what they bring to the table. If that is not understood, one becomes more of a burden than a blessing.
Why give pieces of who you are and not your entirety? This does not imply you will not continue to evolve. It just means you have a solid foundation to grow from. This is applicable to what men deserve as well. I encourage you to find yourself. Find your purpose. Work on you. Cultivate you. Master being a man or woman. Don’t seek validation from another person because their criticism will kill you spiritually. A Privilege is a special right, an immunity, as is a solid relationship.

Who Cares? 

Written by Britney Clark

Who cares if he isn’t 100%

Who cares if he doesn’t say how he feels 

Who cares if he tells you the same thing he tells other girls 

Who cares
If he really wants you, you’ll know it

If he really wants you, he’ll show it
Disregard meaningless emoticons

Overused for unintentional feelings 

While we’re on the subject, stay out of em
Focus on your money, your dreams, your goals

As I said before, who cares

He will if it was ever real